Friday, October 5, 2012

The Journey Continues....

It has been a week since we have written a post or have communicated with people, for that we apologize.  A week it has been....  We came home on Sunday.  I stayed home with Kent on Monday.  It was a day of "gingerly" walking around the house, a long shower with many tasks that should come easy to one, they were hard and required help from a wife made caretaker.  A 20 lb weight limit made simple tasks as lifting a computer to his lap and holding certain things hard.  Kent takes plenty of naps as this task he has no problem following the doctors orders on the other hand other doctors orders are more difficult to follow.  Walking and keeping things moving is not one of those things he enjoys doing.  He also doesn't like moving out of the house.  I think he feels safe and knows what his limits are if he is at home.  The one exception is that he has wanted to go to church for a week now.  I don't blame him as I wanted to go when I was cooped up when I had surgery.

Today, the weather was nice, so I thought it would be nice to go for a ride to see Kent's work and visit.  The ride down was great and the visit was great as well.  We then left with intentions to go for a quick bite out before returning home.  We made it around the corner and had to pull in to a parking lot quickly  as Kent needed to make it out of the car.  Unfortunately, he didn't make it all the way.  This action was due to an empty stomach and a mix of Miralax.  That stuff is terrible, for anyone :(   Kent is resting comfortably in his chair and we will try some good food later on this evening.  We have been treated to some food from a co -worker of mine and maybe that will be the comfort Kent needs right now .    As a side note we are thankful beyond words for all the meals and care people have done for us.  We are just brought to tears as we a humbled by those remembering us.

Lydia is doing well.  She seems to like school. She's doing some school work after school with my cousin at Sylvan Learning, and along with that she stays busy at Gymnastics and Gilda's Club.  Gilda's is a support group that she is able to be with other kids and discuss Cancer.   She has made many friends and even went on the night of Kent's Surgery by herself.
  I am doing somewhat okay.  I defiantly am frustrated not knowing how to help Kent. At times I don't know how to manage Lydia by myself as sometimes it requires both of us.  I just want to help them both and encourage them and feel sometimes I don't have it in me,  I'm tired and just need help myself.

We are both glad we made it one week past Surgery and look to the future.  We know that we are in God's hands and that he will do great things for us and through us.  We will take each minute at a time knowing God all ready has our journey planned.  So for now we keep climbing and fighting for Kent's Cure with a cross for the T in Kent.  We will keep following Jesus in this climb for a cure!  For now we say Thank You for journeying with us! ~ Leah

4 comments:

  1. Leah, thank you for keeping the posts going. It really does help to know how and what to pray for. We will continue to pray for not only Kent and the eradication of the cancer but also for you as you care for him and Lydia, and for Lydia as she is no doubt trying to figure this all out in her little head. Praying this next week goes better than the last.
    Sandy (& Richard) Honholt

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  2. Hello Kent and Leah,

    We persevere in prayer for all of you. Leah, what a sweet post you had today. Be sure to take care of yourself as well. God bless.

    Uncle Steve and Aunt Linda

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  3. Thank you for the sweet update Leah! I am on it!!! Love you all!!! Marathon's are about Persevering through the Hills...a.k.a. One of the course Hills was called Heart Break!! Ouch @ about mile 18 Bobby was with me and said O.K. Mom you can do this... So you need people along side of you to say O.K. You can do this!!!!!!!!! I know you can!!! Even though your heart rate is over the pace that it should be!!! and you have 8 or more miles to go!! I knew God Had the perfect plan!!! Go Leah Go!! Go Lydia Go!!! GO KENT GO!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOU GUYS!!! So many people are praying along side!!!

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  4. Leah,
    Your post hit me tonight! I am praying for you!!! I can only compare working full time and being a mom with your life right now -- Your strength has been inspirational!!

    Here are some lyrics from a song that I heard this morning on the radio....
    I won't give you more
    More than you can take
    And I might let you bend
    But I won't let you break
    And know I won't ever let you go
    Don't you forget what He said

    Who you are, and what you're going through
    So don't let it get the best of you
    'Cause God knows everything you need
    So you ain't gotta worry
    You may be knocked down now, but just believe what He said

    Hang in there, Leah --- We are praying for your whole family -- Kent, Lydia, & YOU!!!!

    Love, Annie

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